Wednesday, 20 March 2013

MY IDEAL MAN AND WOMAN

It is the dream of every man or woman to find the right partner in life. Beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder, but many have their own way of choosing their beloved. It is important to note that, while some guys are looking out for ladies who are slim, beautiful attractive and more importantly good in bed, others are  also looking out for fat ladies who also have the physical beauty to attract them.
ladies are usually perceived to like men who are tick, tall and muscular. Obviously not all ladies like a man like that.  The current aspirant for the position women's commissioner at the Ghana Institute of journalism, Divine Esther Bedzra says, " I like a man who is taller than me, not too skinny. he must be a guy who dresses well". In her opinion when you dress good you will feel good about yourself, and the way you dress reflects the person you are". Divine was quick to add that, the guy must the be a Christian.
Moving on, I spoke to some guys and ladies about their ideal man or woman. Jesse Yirenkyi revealed that, "he likes a woman who is neither fat nor slim,caring, has an open heart and must be able to tell the truth at all times; and most importantly she must be a good cook.  
JESSE YIRENKYI
Joan Sefakor Akpkli also  expressed her opinion on her ideal man.She said," I like a guy who is tall not too skinny,not too fat and must be very very good in bed". Joan indicated that, she is not bothered when  her boy friend eats a lot since that will make her happy seeing her man eat the food she prepares.
JOAN SEFAKOR AKPAKLI
 Finally, kweku Zurek, a sports analyst says," my ideal woman must be someone I can talk to, that is someone I can relate to and  has something in common with. Am not bothered about physical appearance, though the looks are important". kweku added that the lady must be good in bed and if the sex is not good then the communication is not going on well.
There are so many guys and ladies out there. Be careful who you choose for a wife. Pray for God to direct you as you choose your ideal man or woman. He or she may have all the qualities in your check list but the inner man is important. Sometimes when you are praying to God for a wife or a husband, you already have somebody in mind. Clear your mind and he will direct your part.
Am open to any suggestions on this topic and comments.